Hi Everyone

My name is Marcel and I'm from Indonesia, I have been going out with someone I really love, it will be a year next month, and she is so special, not just from the physical and behaviour aspects, but also from the spiritual aspect, at first, some few years ago I'm a secular person, and I didn't really believe in religion, but I do believe in God, I think I'm what they call an agnostic, but here in Indonesia you have to have a religion noted on your I.D card, and I'm catholic.

My girlfriend's name is Dewi, and she's 22, she has this ability to communicate with spirits which she has got ever since early childhood, and until now, she's terrified and fear every encounter, but she cannot see these peoples just everywhere and anytime, she has to be a little sick for the ability to come out, and believe me, her health is not very good, we're currently working on to cure a very picky stomach, and a (what I suspect to be) gall bladder stone. so, every time she got a little sick e.g caught a cold, have a fever, a fever is usually the main cause for her sights, she can see, hear, feel them touch her, and every single person she sees ever since she's small is dressed in white, but in some time last month, she sees a black suited person in an elevator and felt his hand running on her face, and every time her ability to see came out, it's like all her energy is sucked out from her, she'll always be sick and tired the next day, usually a high fever.

a few weeks after that last view, she recently got this wonderful job in a very good environmented factory as an accountant, and the most unexpected thing happen, she got transferred to another part of town, the other branch of this factory, which is located in an old building, and there has been stories there, but she didn't know that until she came down there herself, and she felt something unusual and she didn't waste any time to wait and asked her senior officer, she asked "there is something here, right?" and later, the senior officer said yes, and her other friends, and the orderlies which have worked there too, has felt a strange presence, something passing by quickly and not clear, even that day, which is today, she didn't said much to me, and she's so quiet when she got home, but then she told me she saw something, not clear, but just passing by her eyes, and she knew it was that "something" she saw.
She'll be transferred in two weeks from now, and we are currently working on a solution to not to have her moved there, but most of these people, and unfortunately, her senior officers, don't believe her, and worst, they tell her it is only in her mind, it is not real, I told her to tell them that it would jeopardize her health if she will have to work at that old building, better be safe than sorry, if there's no other choice, she'll resign from the job.

that's the story, me myself, I believe that she has this ability as a gift, a wonderful gift, and also a few weeks ago she met a priest that told her the same thing, that what she saw in white clothings are angels, and that she has to meet this someone get the ability "supercharged" so that she can see them more clearly (this is EXACTLY what she doesn't want), it's terrifying for her to see them, but I do believe that she has this ability, and it stays in her for a reason, other members of her family too has a gift like this, but they all vanished when they got older, only hers stays, and oh yeah, I can't talk to her family about this becos my girlfriend stays with me in another town, she's trying to get away from them becos they're nothing but pain.

but what is the reason? is she not ready yet? I'd personally like her to develop this ability and maybe help someone, do they really need help? or they're nothing but people just trying to get attention? but I can't bear seeing her sick and sicker every time, I'd rather that she doesn't have this ability if it makes her health worsen every time.

I haven't browsed every article in your site yet, but I'm trying to read everything that correlates with my girlfriend's situation, thank God she haven't seen a decomposing face or a restless spirit in anger or anything like that, and until now she's seen nothing but white clothed persons, once a black one, and she told me that she never seen their faces, and even if she does, she did it in out of her conciousness, and she didn't remember afterwards

I'm confused, what to do? is there a forum where I can chat and read others's experience and ask questions?

Thank You for even reading this

Sincerely,

Marcel Yuwono

Hey Marcel,

I'd be happy to speak to you via pm (personal messaging) about her abilities and how she can learn to control them and also protect herself from negative energy.

To begin with, I'd highly recommend that she learn quantum touch. You can order the book online via amazon.com or through the QT main site. I believe there are teachers in Singapore you could maybe buy the book or basic video from.

I've found that when you raise your own vibration through the basic techniques, you become too bright, and vibrate too fast for any negative energy to hold on to for very long.

It's quite amazing in that respect. I've found that when I'm being bombarded with negative conversation or vibes from someone, all I need to do is run energy and see myself filling with bright white light. Sure enough within a few moments, the conversation quickly turns to one of happy content.

Quantum touch is quite a powerful healing tool. It's so easy that quite literally anyone can learn it. If healing herself is too overwhelming a concept for her, then you can learn it and then help her with her health issues. It's as simple as applying the basic technique and gently holding your hands over the area that is not well. Many times healing occurs very quickly.

As spirit communication isn't really a part of Quantum Touch teachings, I'll pm you with my suggestions.

Best of luck to both of you,

Marcel,

I agree with Sonja about having your girlfriend learn to raise her vibration. In this way anything negative cannot come through. Quantum Touch is an excellent way to do this.

One thing she could do is practice a visualization where she surrounds herself with white light every morning with the intention that it will protect her throughout the day. This simple little exercise can help repel negative thoughts and beings.

I don't know much about spirits and don't know anyone who has had a similar experience so I hope Sonja can help you there.

I wish you and Dewi the best of luck and hope that things work out for her.

Lu

Thanks a lot to sonja for your pm, and thank you everyone else for their replies.

I will try looking for the Quantum touch book, it is difficult for us in Indonesia to order books from amazon, so I'll try and order from our local bookstore

and until now, every site and forum I posted this matter to suggest to learn shielding, and sonja's experiences has been the most helpful one, Thank you sonja

wish us luck ><

You're very welcome Marcel

I wish both of you the best of luck!

Hi,

Well, in any case of protecting yourself with quick, easy and efficient techniques against haunting, unseen influences, negative things, and all the sort, there are practical, easy-to-learn techniques that work.

There is one book I strongly recommend :
''Practical Psychic Self-defense'', by Robert Bruce.

The author is a great man with a great insight.
More info on his website : http://www.astraldynamics.com

Marcel,
I recommend that she says this short prayer regularly and especially if she is feeling a spirit near her:
"I ask that only light beings be allowed to enter my time, my space and my journey."