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journeyman |
I just got this in a private message. I feel this guy is a predator. I have never seen him post anything postitive on this forum and I would like to make it aware he is preying on us gals behind the scenes. If moderating his activities is possible I would highly suggest it.
Thanks *QUOTE From: Tyciol* You're a teenager aren't you? In the days I used to hang around MSN chats all the teeny bopper girls would have icons like that. They were usually pretty annoying, but yours looks sort of okay, very pure and angelic and all that, and I'm way into liking angels. |
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Quote: ___________________________ I really think we need to talk to Richard about this and alert Jennifer in the office. Love, compassion, and understanding is good but the message your received is creepy at the very least. |
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Oops. first sign of positivity detected! I guess it's never quite time to judge... I apologise.
.In post Re. Socks, the cat.. <<Hearing that name made me flash back to a book I read as a kid I was recalling a couple weeks ago, also about a cat named Socks. It was a very touching story... full of gentleness and love, and I think the positive feelings that invoked must be going to that cat (along with all the other Socks cats out there). Has anyone else read this book? >> Maybe there's signs of hope there! ! |
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journeyman |
Thank you gals!
I felt like a tattle-tale last night BUT this guy has gone on too long with his crap and then this perversion.  I just wonder if he's done this to anyone else behind the scenes that are afraid to come forward? I am no where near my teen years, LOL! But I do have 2 grown teenagers who I'd really hate for them to come in contact with a guy like this on the internet who is obviously preying on young girls. There are hundreds of awesome people on this board PLEASE remove this one bad apple before it spoils the whole barrel. Love, Angie |
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Quote: __________________________________ I don't think that is hope. I think it is manipulation. He posts enough "positive" notes to keep people thinking and hoping there is a chance he'll have a change of heart. IMO, he's taking people on this board for a ride. |
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Hi, everyone - if he is indeed an adolescent or in his early 20s, I think the private e-mail, is not really perverse - just annoyingly adolescent. If he's an older man, that's something different. From the tones of all his e-mails, though, I get the sense he is just a very immature adolescent who has no idea of how to get along with people and feels compelled to elicit negative attention.
Though annoying, I'm not sure he really qualifies to actually be kicked off the Board. It seems to me that mixed in with all the immaturity and negativity is a genuine interest in QT that persists, and I think he may be getting something positive from interacting with the Board. |
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member |
Good Answer Jocelyn
 Quote: I really don't find him even annoying .... as much as searching. His language has greatly improved over the last months and so has his attitude toward this work..... and toward himself  I believe this Board is performing it's Highets function ..... which is facilitating Healing where it is most required.  I see real progress ~ All the Best ~ Alan Rock  |
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member |
Kicking him off would only give him more attention and something else to complain about. Then there's nothing stopping him rejoining as someone else. If nobody rises to the bait he won't persist. My advice would be to ignore the annoying and only respond to what appear to be genuine questions etc. That said I just don't read anything of his if I can help it - sad I know, cop-out? - maybe, but then there's no dilemma. I choose to keep a peaceful heart.
Love & Hope, Jan x |
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newbie |
Quote: A good philosophy - and one that I apply on a few other forums I frequent - if the person bothers you, just don't read their posts. Most forums offer an 'ignore' function that allows you to block out the posts of whomever you put on that list. If the users isp address is blocked, it will be harder for them to register as someone else - unless they use another pc. |
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member |
Hello all,
I just want to give my opinion. I don't think Tyciol is a pervert and I really don't find that post offensive. I have a nephew who he reminds me of. He's a really nice kid (my nephew), but he has no social skills, he does not know how to properly interact with people and the way that he does angers and annoys most people. I often find myself frustrated with him, too, and then I have to remember the mental illness he was raised with to find my patience with him... So all of this to say, I think he is just a kid who is trying to fit in. Cut him some slack. If he hurts your feelings or offends you, then simply communicate to him how he hurt your feelings and why. I hope I may not have to eat my words one of these days, but right now in this moment, I feel that this is correct. Love and light, |
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Hi Patty,
I sincerely hope you are correct and that it will be many of us eating some of our words - not you. Time will tell. Love & Patience, Jan x |
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Horse Happy |
I have avoided posting to Tyciol even though I have found more than a couple of his posts so offensive I have almost responded...
A couple of thoughts....the behavior of pulling people in-pushing them away could be a sign of a borderline personality type...which is the first thought that comes to mind...(In which case the problem of socialization is deep rooted and unlikely to change without serious help..... (I am in no way trying to "diagnose" just am drawing a parallel to my experiences with people that have this. I have worked in the mental health field for 20 years and am merely presenting the possibility as a possible explanation for his behavior....) Second is...there are many strong opinions about Tyciol re: age etc. Why doesn't someone ask him...(I made a decision after the first few posts that I would ignore him...... If he has made more than one "sketchy" PM Post as quoted by angelandarose....then those that have received them should come forward so the board can make a decision as I like others feel the post was "out of line"... I am not into "triangulation" and propose that someone who does correspond make him aware of theses posts so that he can answer for himself................... pnygal |
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I'd be glad to post a new thread saying, "Tyciol, you're in trouble - please see such & such thread." However, since Angelandrose is the one the initial e-mail was directed toward, you might want to do it? If not, again, I'd be glad to.
Again, I think the post was more immature than anything else if he is in fact an adolescent. |
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Not that we are voting here, but since several of you feel that ignoring him would be the best solution. I say we go ahead and try it. Respond only to his loving posts. Alan does have a good point about the nature of the board serving its higher purpose of healing.
However, I am concerned over the PM that Angel got. I believe that care should be taken in this area. I would feel much better if we knew the age of Tyciol. I just "feel" that something is amiss here. I'd like to be wrong and would love to eat my words if I am. I also liked the idea of bringing Tyciol here to this thread to answer some questions and respond. I like to put the cards on the table. On the other hand, Richard posted awhile back about him posting for attention, which he got, and that is why he continues. I guess what I'm saying is that I'm fine w/ Tyciol having access to the board, but I'm concerned about the PM to Angel. |
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